If you're recently-turned-single and not exactly content with that situation, there are a number of things you can do to get your ex back. Not everything has to be really difficult, either. There are 3 fairly simple things you can do to "grease the wheels" of getting back together, and you can get started immediately!
1) One of the things to get your ex's attention and make a few thoughts flutter through his/her head is to not let yourself fall apart. By this I mean...stay hot! Look your absolute best possible, and don't be afraid to advertise it. Keep in shape, max out your hygiene, and dress sharp!
This is a good thing in two ways. One, it's obviously great to look good...and two, it'll likely start getting you some attention from the opposite sex other than your ex. You don't have to really do anything with anyone else, but if your ex sees you as the object of a lot of interest it's almost unavoidable that it'll pique your ex's interest as well. Jealousy is a GREAT motivator!
2) Another fantastic way to impress your ex is to stay on the public scene. Keep up and at it, doing stuff with your friends and living life, rather than just letting a breakup destroy you. A lot of people get really depressed after a breakup, and there's nothing wrong with that...but there IS a lot wrong with letting it rule you.
Stay active, live life outside of your couch and TV. Hang out with your pals, have fun. It shows a strength to you that your ex may or may not have known existed...and you may not realize how much your ex is probably hurting as well, but seeing you "getting along okay" is a pretty respectable thing in his/her eyes.
3) If you really want to get your ex interested in you again, probably your most powerful tactic is to sit down and do some heavy thinking and work on yourself. This may seem like a brutal thing to say, but chances are extremely high that if your ex dumped you, the problem was because of you. If you can really analyze the way things went, maybe you can figure out what went wrong and fix whatever is wrong.
This is a tall order, I know...nobody changes overnight, and it can be hard to do it at all. I've been there myself, I know how hard it is...but it is doable. I promise you, if you make all this effort and make the changes required to stop feeding the problems that caused your break up, your ex will look at you with a newfound respect.
Getting your ex back isn't impossible...it can seem pretty hard sometimes, but with the right motivation, determination, and an idea of where to begin, it can work out pretty well. With a little work, you can impress your ex and get him/her back with relative ease.
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